A Wellness Story
January 2008
By Kathy Franch MckennaAround this time last year, I
called The Wellness Community the day of my diagnosis. Luckily
I had been receiving the newsletter at my office; it arrived
that day like an invitation to call. Many times it had
arrived; I always thought, if I ever got cancer, I’d
investigate. Nevertheless, I had to muster courage to call.
When Diane Malpass, PsyD., LMFT called back, welcoming me to a
meeting, her warmth melted reluctance. |
“I called the Wellness
Community the day of my diagnosis. Luckily I had
been receiving the newsletter at my
office...nevertheless, I had to muster courage to call.
When Diane Malpass,
PsyD., LMFT called back, welcoming me to a meeting, her
warmth melted reluctance...”
- Kathy Franch Mckenna |
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At that first meeting, hearing a woman my age, now my
friend, recount her
management of her illness, I settled down. I was not alone.
Treatment looked doable. I felt relief at telling my story and
at having it listened to carefully. The momentum continued
from there as I sampled a panoply of tools to manage my
illness. From a well referenced library to “Joke Fest”,
between yoga and guided imagery, from lectures to support
groups and nutrition classes, the Wellness Community met
my needs. Now, a year later, I write for the newsletter a
little story of the outpouring of kindness, compassion and
cancer knowledge I encounter here. In the camaraderie of many
others facing cancer with courage, grace, tears and well
chosen temper tantrums, I’m so glad to tell you about people
unafraid to admit fear, unwilling to accept despair, and
looking to love life to the fullest. Here we have the tools
ready honed for stress
management and for rebuilding after the fallout of the
illness. I celebrate my friends. This year, my cancer is in
remission. As if that were not enough, I have a renewed zest
for life. I feel deep gratitude to the Wellness Community for
helping me, along with my doctors, and nurses, friends,
neighbors, church and family. A significant key to healing is
giving back to others. Another key is an army of support. I
endorse
the Wellness Community, as it offers both and more. As a
member, I invite you, especially newcomers to read this
newsletter, to keep it handy and to call and participate
freely. I look forward to meeting you. - Kathy |